Kradmelder wrote:
Breeding with a quality woman was one of my main incentives when having kids. I didnt marry and breed for 'true love' or eternal bliss, My kids got good DNA both sides hence they have succeeded beyond expectations. That was more important than my happiness. If I had mated for true love i would have bred with an unstable nutter waster and my kids would have been handicapped and my DNA as well for generations.
This should be a no brainer for a man: only breed with the best quality woman you can get, who will be a good mother, not for love. Such nonsense is for women. Maybe Adama believes such things. Well that is an old white and probably asian strategy. Breed and marry for the quality of offspring, to give them opportunity. Darkies just breed quantity from several 'wives', like flies. They figure, half will die but some will survive.
True love exists. How do we know? Because the source of love is God. Now if a person has not put complete trust in the Lord Jesus Christ, then they will not believe that love exists. Many people believe that love doesn't exist, and as a result, they've have accepted all kinds of terrible things which are abnormal as normal.
I will tell you now that DNA doesn't matter to God. Jesus and John the Baptist both told that to the Pharisees of their day, who believed that their DNA being through Abraham made them special people.
What matters is the heart and the soul of the person. Are they true believers or do they just give lip service? (I am not even saying a person has to be perfect, but if they don't believe in love between man and wife they certainly don't believe in the Lord or any of His eternal promises, sadly for them.)
If a woman can believe in God, who she can't see, she will follow you as her husband, because she can see you (you are there in the flesh). Unfortunately, most men think having rebellious wives is for the best.
Now culture can make up for SOME of that. But with God, you don't even need culture on your side. If God is on your side, who could win against you? Certainly not society. But if God isn't on your side, all kinds of bad things will happen to you, because you don't know what's truly right and wrong, you're working outside His will, and you aren't letting Him be your guide, instead relying on yourself. That's why they come to conclusions, such as that love between husband and wife is unimportant.
I've also worked with a few men who went on out of one side of their mouth telling me how disobedient their wives are (they just say uncooperative). Then on the other side of their mouths, they claim they have the best wives ever. I never correct them. It just testifies to how blind they are to what they themselves are testifying to.