sentinel89 wrote:Relax, it's just an internet forum.. It just seems like so many Latinas wouldn't be coming back for seconds and thirds if I had under-performed in comparison to my Latino counterparts... and I am not sleeping with low quality Latinas here. Also, I am not showering them with gifts or promises.
Most women of every ethnic background marry guys from their own ethnic background. Even in the Philippines, probably the mail order bride capital of the world, a Filipina woman is much more likely to marry a Filipina man than a foreigner.. But many Latinas sleep with and/or marry gringo men. Most of the gringo men who travel to Latin America (with the exception of drugged up hippies and backpackers) are at very least financially stable men who have decent jobs back in the states who present themselves neatly. There's expat events here in Bogota's Zona Rosa, and most guys show up wearing buttoned up shirts, dress jeans or khakis, and shiny watches. I personally try not to look too flashy, as I don't want to attract the wrong kind of attention.
I keep myself clean cut and hit the gym hard, and that's worked great for me. Most Colombian men are skinny, short, and not very strong so it is easy to stand out if you have a decent muscle tone.
We shouod relax as it is just an internet forum, but come on, pal, do not deny that having these debates adds more flavour to the forum once in a while
OK, show me photos of your good quality Latinas. As a Latino, I know what is considered beautiful by our standards as standards of beauty in Mexico difffer from the ones in the United States. I say this because the vast majority of gringos and gringas for that matter marry the ugliest Mexican men and Mexican women they can find. I very rarely see a gringo or gringa with a good looking Mexican girl or a Mexican man like myself in the case of gringas dating Latinos.
I do not think many Latinas sleep with or marry gringos. Considering that in Mexico there are far less foreigners than in the US, the vast majority of Mexican women marry Mexican men not to mention most people here both men and women do not want to deal with the cultural difference baggage.
Same in Colombia, those Colombian women seeking gringos are NOT typical Colombian women. Latin Americans most are stil conservative in that you meet men and women at work, school or friends circle, NOT in an expat event.
The Colombian men I have met I have seen them with some muscle, and if they are skinny, they dress far better than any gringo I met. You are forgetting here that Latin Americans we are not like gringos in that women here like a super muscled guy. Most women here like them skinny or having some muscle, but not a man that looks more like a tank than a human. That looks fake by our standards.
Khakis are un fashionable. Looks boring. Just because one is dress "formal" does not make it dress nicely. It is more complex than that. The clothes have to be well tailored and fit closer to one's body, and I am aware the vast majority of Americans do not dress with fitted clothes. I have seen on TV those expat events in documentaries, and almost all of the gringos dress very tourist-like and if they dress formal, the clothes do not fit them right, it is somewhat baggy. I know about fashion and how to look good, so I know what I am talking about. Heck, some people have called me metrosexual despite I do not consider myself one.
I am slender though I have a wide, hard chest that is manly, and do quite well with girls both in Mexico and with foreign girls. So this proves that you do not always needs muscle to get a girl.